Dreams

[Ryan]

What are your thoughts on them?

I keep having the same types of dreams. That involve my girlfriend cheating on me. I woke up this morning after one where she sent me a package that included a list of all the things I do wrong in our relationship, and next to each thing, the name of guys she knows that wouldn't/don't do those same things wrong. Also in the package was a video. It started off with video of a couple different times where she cheated on me, which to my knowledge she never has, and never would. But it felt so real, with one of the dudes she was even wearing the exact same Villanueva Bucks jersey that I own. The video slowly turned into just another regular porno with people I dont know, have never met, etc. I woke up so pissed off this morning. It's ridiculous.

Now I can't figure out if this is my subconscious telling me something I already know, that she's cheated, or is/has been cheating on me, or if it's my subconscious telling me that my insecurities are a problem. Because I'm very insecure. Always have been. I've always been worried that my serious girlfriends would/were cheating on me. Maybe it's because I feel worthless, and wonder why any girl would want to be with me? My dad cheated on my mom, thus causing their divorce when I was probably like 5 or so. So maybe that has something to do with it?

[/HeartToHeart]

Fuck...I hate dreams.

What are your thoughts on dreams? And what weird dreams do you have?

And I'm trying to be serious, but if I know RB, this thread will fail. lol.

[Born To Kill]

I rarely remember my dreams...

And NEVER have recurring ones.

I sleep peacefully everynight.

[Ryan]

I'm jealous.

I usually have like 2-3 dreams per week. I'd say that's about average.

[Mic Dareall]

I rarely remember my dreams...

And NEVER have recurring ones.

I sleep peacefully everynight.

This, I cannot remember the last time I remembered a dream.

[Air Wave]

I have a dream every night and i can remember them every night. Shits wild. Some of em are scary, some are just pointless. After 2 or 3 hours in the morning i can't remember shit tho. Crazy. Dreams are pretty wild in general. Haven't done a whole lotta study on the concept. Interesting...

[Mic Dareall]

Didn't we have a thread like this recently or some what recently? With someone like Abi analyzing peoples dreams or some shit.

[spokenoh]

Dreams are pretty fascinating. I've had very surreal dreams. I remember a few times getting up to check my pockets for money I had found in dreams, etc. I've also had dreams that were like premonitions. When I was a bit younger I used to have a lot of 'end of the world' dreams'. I've had dreams that symbolized something or an event and ended up coming true. I was haunted by dreams in the same vein as yours for awhile in the summer. My life drastically improved since then and I mostly sleep soundly.

[Ryan]

Lmao @ the killzone dream. Dopesauce.

[Raptor Jesus]

you only remember your dreams if you wake up immediately after.

[Spoken Deity]

I believe everything is phallic.

Woot @ one eyed flesh trees!

[Ryan]

I, too, have had dreams where I saw something that ended up coming true. Shit's like waaaait, I saw this in my dream.

[KiiD ExClusiivE]

maybe its just a coincidence that you just so happened to have this dream or maybe it is a sign, for future references. Either way theres not much you can do about it

[Erun.]

maybe its just a coincidence that you just so happened to have this dream or maybe it is a sign, for future references. Either way theres not much you can do about it

^^ Co-sign. I've come to realize that you should take the interpretation, whatever it may be, with a grain of salt. Don't put too much weight on it, and don't just brush it off, as "just a dream."

Edit: Maybe you should say exactly what you said in your original post to your girlfriend. Have you? Maybe it's your mind trying to tell you to communicate these feelings to her. And the reverse of what you dream about could happen, she could re-assure you that there's nothing for you to worry about and understand you more and feel good that you're able to communicate with her about your inner most thoughts, girls love that. As a measure of caution, when you do tell her about the dreams of her cheating, study her face, and check for any facial gestures, and then look up those facial gestures in a reliable source of physical signs of deceptions i.e. pulling your lips into your mouth (guilt) or looking down and away (guilt). It may be a sneaky thing to do, but cheating on you is sneakier.

[Oxymoron]

^^ Co-sign. I've come to realize that you should take the interpretation, whatever it may be, with a grain of salt. Don't put too much weight on it, and don't just brush it off, as "just a dream."

Edit: Maybe you should say exactly what you said in your original post to your girlfriend. Have you? Maybe it's your mind trying to tell you to communicate these feelings to her. And the reverse of what you dream about could happen, she could re-assure you that there's nothing for you to worry about and understand you more and feel good that you're able to communicate with her about your inner most thoughts, girls love that. As a measure of caution, when you do tell her about the dreams of her cheating, study her face, and check for any facial gestures, and then look up those facial gestures in a reliable source of physical signs of deceptions i.e. pulling your lips into your mouth (guilt) or looking down and away (guilt). It may be a sneaky thing to do, but cheating on you is sneakier.

yeah but you got to be careful with reading facial expressions, they can do the gestures that suggest something, even though it's not true.


For example, I bite my lip sometimes, but I don't do it cause I feel guilty. I just do it.

[Spoken Deity]

the dream is probably a penis dude... or you want to have to sex with your mother.

It has to be one of the two