Question

[Brother Blue Collar]

This is totally hypothetical since i am nowhere near finding a chick i wanna be with the rest of my life.

If you truly feel that you've met your soulmate, you marry this person, and after an x amount of years, you become tired of her sexually, and cheat on her, but still wanna be in a relationship with her, can you really be truly in love????

can you really claim that you still love her????

[Chris Black]

Love is some shit humans made up. There is no one person built just for you. I'm not saying I don't believe in monogamy, but society tricked us all into believing we're all supposed to find a single person and be monogamous & love that single person forever. I'm not saying that can't happen, but it's not for all of us.

[Uben. Pwnd]

Such indeed a good question.
My honest answer is, well yes.
Sexual conduct isn't one of the most important things in love.
Although it plays a part, I think you can love someone and be in love,
and have the sexual conduct with another as long as it's okay.
Cheating aspect I think not. Cause if you truely love someone would you cheat in the first place?

[Uben. Pwnd]

And what I mean by "it's okay".
Is that you and your partner both come to understanding that's it just sexual, and no attachment.

[Chris Black]

And love is an illusion.

Love = I really, really, really like this person & I also have sex with him/her!

Love = I like this person more than anyone else I know, and I get to have sex with him/her too. Yippie!

Love = I like this person so much I don't want to like another person this much. Plus we have sex!

etc.

etc.

[Brother Blue Collar]

And what I mean by "it's okay".
Is that you and your partner both come to understanding that's it just sexual, and no attachment.

i think that's a sign of true love, tho.

he/she approached it different then what i laid out, cuz that's not cheating.

wtf@some chick telling me she wanted a fiance in two years???

i told her it was impossible.

[Uben. Pwnd]

Exactly.

and 2 years.
Almost impossible.

[Quotient]

^actually.. if it was a man that said that i'd laugh with u.

but honestly chicks do that. and it works for them. they just try
to have a serious relationship with the first decent guy they get
with at that point.

[Extinctor Draconis]

And love is an illusion.

Love = I really, really, really like this person & I also have sex with him/her!

Love = I like this person more than anyone else I know, and I get to have sex with him/her too. Yippie!

Love = I like this person so much I don't want to like another person this much. Plus we have sex!

etc.

etc.

thats pretty dead on

[WareProductions]

ima put it to you like this

you been inside ya momma (genesis), and you been wit her x amount of years (life). you aint attracted to her sexually anymore (thats my mom!). you cheat on her (hopefully youve seen some action).

NOW ASK YOURSELF: Do I still love my momma?

[RXL]

lol@ love having an automatic sexual connection

poor chris and his child like emotions...

[WareProductions]

for real tho, you can still b in love even if you cheat. you'll feel horrible. unless you cheat cuz you're not in love anymore thats a different situation

[Born To Kill]

lol@ love having an automatic sexual connection

poor chris and his child like emotions...

Insight...

WTF's wrong with you, Chris?

Why so down on everything lately?

Of course love exists...you just haven't found it yet...
Or you forgot what it's like.

Patience

It comes in more than one form, ya know.

[B E L L]

I believe you can be with one person..

if the sex gets boring tell her..

I think thats where the problem comes in ...instead of a nigga being baby look blah blah..
they just step out..

most girls think just cause they lay there and you nut they got some good pussy.
thats what their used to. So thats what they think sex is.

I havent found that forever type of love so I cant speak on that..

I have liked someone enough that I didnt want to cheat, plus if the sex is good you never really think about fuckin someone else

[Zanny Willson]

I myself wouldn't be happy with my 'soulmate' sleeping with someone else because they weren't sexually attracted to me. That shits depressing, it'd make me feel like shit, and I don't care how much I'm in love with them, if they were willing to even drop the idea it'd ruin our relationship. I wouldn't do it for that exact reason, if you really love someone I think you should be willing to give up that sexual need for others, as stupid as it sounds :/

I mean, I know people who do it, theres guys I know that go out and sleep with other girls, probably unkown to their girlfriends and shit, but it'd piss me off if I wasn't the one going out and having sex, so I don't think I would do it just because I wouldn't want it to happen to me. I'm no where near that forever love type shit, but I don't know thats my take

Can't be negative like that anyways, just keep the sex interesting