Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
! @M
^thnx for the advice...^ see dats a good post... not like the others thinkin ima child nd shit...
Well, honestly alot of people experience this for themselves during there teen years. Therefore knowing of what comes through this type of behavior.
It was a clinical guess, on my behalf because you asked this question that you might be of "coming of age" per say.
And so, hence my comment.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
Kris Cain
see, a situation like that... i wouldnt get in.
especially if i knew i wasnt gonna be "exclusive" to the female.
fuck that. I'm not about to be on her "cock list"... lol.
No shit Mr Cain, I just hate it. I dont know why, but yeah man. I get all emotional and shit. I love women, but all the ones I like, I want them all for myself.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
friends with benefits is all I have ever had. I don't get in relationships and I haven't had many one night stands. Most females Ive been with have been friends that grew into a sexual relationships. I have some female friends that I have had a freinds w/benefits relationship with for years now, but thats due to the fact that I don't live in the same states and when I visit is the only time we spend time together so there is no chance for anyone to try and take it to a different level.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
Dork
No shit Mr Cain, I just hate it. I dont know why, but yeah man. I get all emotional and shit. I love women, but all the ones I like, I want them all for myself.
it's human nature to not want to share someone you have an emotional and sexual attachment to. if you weren't jealous then i'd say there was something wrong with you.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
the best thing you can do if you want to be a fuck friend with a chick...
is not even be her friend.
dont develop a friendship with her.
just make it clear that you meet, and you fuck. period.
nothing more, nothing less. Meet, and fuck.
bored? call her up, see if she's doing anything important... if not, go over and fuck her... and leave.
Dont even attempt conversation.
This has to be upheld by both parties though if you ever want it to succeed. You can't even talk during sex. You cant say "This is MY pussy bitch, say my fuckin name"... no shit like that. That creates a emotional connection.
If you fuck her too good, or if she puts it on you on some next level shit... your screwed. You gotta think of this chick as a cum disposal unit if you want to have a successful fuck buddie situation. If not, your gonna develop a feeling for her.... then thats when shit gets complicated.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
Coherent.
it's human nature to not want to share someone you have an emotional and sexual attachment to. if you weren't jealous then i'd say there was something wrong with you.
Yo! I hate it. I sometimes have sexual relations with this married woman, and I hate the fact that she goes home to this fuckin punk ass bitch. I get satisfaction from fucking her of course, but I get more satisfaction that im fucking his WIFE behind his back.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
Dork
No shit Mr Cain, I just hate it. I dont know why, but yeah man. I get all emotional and shit. I love women, but all the ones I like, I want them all for myself.
then you need to be looking for a relationship. Not a fuck buddy.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
Dork
Yo! I hate it. I sometimes have sexual relations with this married woman, and I hate the fact that she goes home to this fuckin punk ass bitch. I get satisfaction from fucking her of course, but I get more satisfaction that im fucking his WIFE behind his back.
that sounds like you need to chill with her then. Cuz that bitch is shady as fuck, and will get your ass in trouble if you dont watch out.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
! @M
never thought about that type of benefit... but yea it counts... dont hav to use dat much money...
lol...
naw we are just still friends after the raltionship was over... cause we pretty much just became really good friends without realizing it... so basically for like 2 months i was having sex with my best friend... kinda strange...
but yeah... i was joking.
i mean i do actually still do that though.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
Dork
Yo! I hate it. I sometimes have sexual relations with this married woman, and I hate the fact that she goes home to this fuckin punk ass bitch. I get satisfaction from fucking her of course, but I get more satisfaction that im fucking his WIFE behind his back.
lmao
yea, take cain's advice^
if there's no emotional attachment then there's no jealousy. at least there shouldn't be, unless you're a controlling bastard that's that damn selfish.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
Kris Cain
then you need to be looking for a relationship. Not a fuck buddy.
I know, I know, its just hard for me to find that "one". It just seems like I cant trust a bitch. it scares me. so I hook up with girls but I always think "this is going to end, so im not gonna let myself get attatched."
After the whole divorce thing, its just hard to give my heart to someone. I know that sounds all gay and shit, but yo, thats how I feel.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
its hard these days to find a female who isn't either disloyal, uninteresting or just plain old suffering from ginger from casino syndrome
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
*sheds a tear*
j/p fam.
you gotta go one way or the other. relationship or strictly fuck. anything in between will fail miserably.
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
Coherent.
lmao
yea, take cain's advice^
if there's no emotional attachment then there's no jealousy. at least there shouldn't be, unless you're a controlling bastard that's that damn selfish.
dats da thing im fukin selfish... im a jealous person... wat kan i do... lol... if i want her to be my girl... nd she dont wanna relationship... but i still make out wit her nd stuff...
Re: A Friend Wit Benefits
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Originally Posted by
! @M
dats da thing im fukin selfish... im a jealous person... wat kan i do... lol... if i want her to be my girl... nd she dont wanna relationship... but i still make out wit her nd stuff...
well, she is a hoe.
especially if she has a stable of guys like you.
your making out with a fuckin hoe.
think of that for a while, then you'll know what to do.