White women's opinion of black women & a brother's response!
I got this shit through an e-mail, and I think that the african american guy chopps up the white woman.. just thought it was interesting so I'ma share it w y'all.
Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep! Thumbs up to this black man....... Enjoy.
It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by
a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so
glad she got what she asked for (and more) !!!!!!!!!!
Dear Jamie:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers.
I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking,
educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black
female's attitudes about our relationship.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black
women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too
loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or
carrying too much
excess baggage.
Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly
approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me
the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with
their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes.
I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're
out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why
we are so appealing and coveted by them.
Bryant Gumbel left his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles
Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell
Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney
Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy,
Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...
I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that
is whyI wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us
White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts
together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men
better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know.
Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA
RESPONSE
Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.
Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I
graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta,
Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I
have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased
a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful
black men.
I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just
want to set the record straight of why black men date white women.
Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated
white women was because they were considered easy.
The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They
were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they
lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look
for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So,
they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because
they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of
insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become
intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that
our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us,
drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many
black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control.
I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment
on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I
just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl
to know that not all successful black men date white women.
Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan,
Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface"
Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black
women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and
out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women
over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to
name a few.
I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop
thinking that because you are white that you are some type of
goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and
Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you
were over in the caves of
Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with
clubs. Read your history!
It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your
food.It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your
children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising
your babies during slavery.
It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers,
husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black
women were born with two strikes against them: being black and
being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!
It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love
and beauty that I could never date anyone except my black Queen. It
is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them.
It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and
shades that I love them.
Their
inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their
strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their
ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for
what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach
their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is
why I have fallen in love with black women.
I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy
and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why
do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If
you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with
your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and
breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look
fuller and more voluptuous?
I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have
whatthe
black woman has.
BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can
walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately,
I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife
and mother to my children.
Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I
am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and;
unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.
No offense taken, none given.
Signed, Black Royalty
